I honestly am not sure about Dimeji’s plans for now. From time to time, I’ve thought about it, and I always pretend not to care, but deep down, I know I do. Some might argue that I am not that old at my current age of 27, but I feel that a relationship of about 2 years should have a definite direction.
Financially, Dimeji is okay (average), he is a cool guy, I have met his parents and siblings, and he has met mine. There’s nothing secretive about the relationship, the relationship seems really healthy, so I am honestly baffled as to why it just seems like routine.
I heard it’s not good for a lady to be the first to talk about marriage with a guy so it doesn’t seem like one is pressuring him before he is ready. We do the general future talk about kids, dreams, goals, career compatibility, finances, etc. but no definite marriage plans.
So here I am wondering when this proposal would come, if I would ever get this proposal, and if yes, would I have to wait for 5 more years? It is very tricky because during confusing times, I run to my best friend to bounce ideas off him, and that is Dimeji, the culprit in this case. Of course, Yemisi is not the best person to run for advice in cases like this. I mean, her engagement lasted for three whole years before they moved on, and she didn’t lift a finger to do anything about it.
I don’t know what to do. I don’t know if I should broach the topic with him directly or if it would sound somehow. Maybe I should just keep quiet and trust that he has everything under control since our relationship is okay. I don’t even know. Maybe I’m anxious for nothing. Or maybe…